My Answers my life

The last prompt in the 'Tea for two (and a piece of cake) Tuesdays" made me think a lot, even though the questions are simple, they in some or the other ways define me.Thank you Preeti Shenoy  for this beautiful prompt :)


1. If you had Rs.50,000 to just blow up (you have to spend it on YOURSELF. Giving to Charity or    buying gifts for others not allowed), what would you spend it on and why?


-If ever i had Rs 50,000 just to blow up, i would publish my novel as soon as possible ,because for me it's more than a dream.


2. Name three of your closest friends (not family or spouse) and say why you love them.


a) Saptarshi Baksi- He is just not a close friend, but my brother, whom i can always trust upon .He is the only person i have seen in my life, who always puts himself  in other shoes and thinks.I have immense respect for this guy.He always reminds of the saying " when god forgets to bind people in blood relations, he always makes them best buddies".


b) Prithvi rao- In everyone's life, there will be a friend with whom one can share all stupid jokes, fight on stupid reasons and tease endlessly, that friend in my life is Prithvi rao. I always feel  shamelessly  comfortable sharing all my secrets with her.


c) Tauheed - He is the one of my friends who always understands my nature, many people find me weird because i am moody, but he always understands my point of view of thinking and supports me. 


3. Name three books which have profoundly affected you and which you would recommend to everyone to read.
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a) Wings of fire
b) Ignited minds
c) Love Story by Erich Segal


4. If you know for certain that you can never ever fail, what would you attempt to do?
    -Start my own business firm and spread my business all across the globe.


5. What is THE ONE THING that you want very very badly?
   - I badly wana be world's richest person :-p
    
    

Tea for two and piece of me :-p

Tough from outside, but as soft as cake from inside.
Endlessly i search for feeling that can never change.
Admirer of beauty, i fall in love with beauty every second :-p

Careless about what world thinks about me,i do things which i want to do.
Amidst my anger and love, i  win what i want and i lose what i have.
King of thoughts, beggar of emotions .
End of the day, i am what i am.

Some dreams die young

Recently one of my  friends gave up his life by hanging himself .It was a shocking news for me.
I knew him from school and to my knowledge he was fun loving and active guy.I don't know what made him take such a drastic step.He was a NTSE scholar and  a bright student .It was only recently that he was not able to take up the engineering exam stress and had few backlogs. But that's no reason to end up one's life.
I have seen people who have got 3-4 backlogs, passing engineering with a job in their hand.

  In 2006, 5,857 students — or 16 a day — committed suicide across India due to exam stress. And these are just the official figures

[Source: TOI, March 2008, Report] 

95-100 people commit suicide in India every day

- And of these a whopping 40% are in the adolescent age group

[Source: CNN-IBN Report, Jan 13 2010] 

 20 students killed themselves every day in 2010

Some blame education system, some media and some blame parents for too much pressurizing their children to perform well. Whenever such sensitive topics come up in media, there is always blame game, but no solution.

Whenever i think about my friend i always feel 

"Some dream has died young"   

Patience is virtue of success

Hello everyone,
It has  been around a month i have started this blog. but unfortunately i have not been able to post anything .
I always love reading and writhing things that i experience, but i always kept blogging aside  , because i felt giving my academics more importance than anything, but i have learnt that academics is not 'the'only reason of success and happiness, doing what you love to do is real happiness.so here i go.

Yesterday i learnt a very important lesson in my life.
Hard work is not always immediately followed by success, you have to wait and have patience.In my one month GATE 2012 preparation, i lost many fun moments because i believe in sacrifice. I gave my 100%, but my GATE exam didn't go well.I was shocked and confused where i went wrong.But i am glad, i learnt a lesson that not every hard work is followed immediately  by success, you have to just wait, but it will surely fetch you success someday or the other.At and of the day, i always admire my good friends saying " Keep your eyes always open, each moment teach you a lesson ".